Dear Black Children,
Being overly introverted isn't a flex like some people think it is.
Yes, it’s good to be reserved. It’s okay to mind your business.
But being in isolation—unchecked—is addictive and dangerous.
You need friends. You need people. It is not a want. It's a need. God blesses people through people.
Hear me. Sometimes, you have to force yourself out of your comfort zone. Just show up. Be present.
Because over time, people stop inviting you.
Your absence starts to dull the mood. Even your siblings barely connect with you anymore.
You’re always locked up in your own world.
You go through life alone.
No one visits. You don’t visit anyone. You start to avoid people altogether.
But let me tell you—loneliness will choke you in your 60s.
You’ll look back and wish you socialized when you had the chance.
I once read:
“You make your best friends when you’re young. It’s a retirement plan.”
And it’s true.
At 60, when others are celebrating 30-40 years of friendship, reunions, shared memories, deep bonds—
You’re out here still stuck in watching people's WhatsApp status.
Try and build friendships with people who already have their people.
And let’s not forget opportunities— Most of them come by through social networking.
Have an awesome weekends and MAY God see us through 🙏🏽
Inspired
Being overly introverted isn't a flex like some people think it is.
Yes, it’s good to be reserved. It’s okay to mind your business.
But being in isolation—unchecked—is addictive and dangerous.
You need friends. You need people. It is not a want. It's a need. God blesses people through people.
Hear me. Sometimes, you have to force yourself out of your comfort zone. Just show up. Be present.
Because over time, people stop inviting you.
Your absence starts to dull the mood. Even your siblings barely connect with you anymore.
You’re always locked up in your own world.
You go through life alone.
No one visits. You don’t visit anyone. You start to avoid people altogether.
But let me tell you—loneliness will choke you in your 60s.
You’ll look back and wish you socialized when you had the chance.
I once read:
“You make your best friends when you’re young. It’s a retirement plan.”
And it’s true.
At 60, when others are celebrating 30-40 years of friendship, reunions, shared memories, deep bonds—
You’re out here still stuck in watching people's WhatsApp status.
Try and build friendships with people who already have their people.
And let’s not forget opportunities— Most of them come by through social networking.
Have an awesome weekends and MAY God see us through 🙏🏽
Inspired
Dear Black Children,
Being overly introverted isn't a flex like some people think it is.
Yes, it’s good to be reserved. It’s okay to mind your business.
But being in isolation—unchecked—is addictive and dangerous.
You need friends. You need people. It is not a want. It's a need. God blesses people through people.
Hear me. Sometimes, you have to force yourself out of your comfort zone. Just show up. Be present.
Because over time, people stop inviting you.
Your absence starts to dull the mood. Even your siblings barely connect with you anymore.
You’re always locked up in your own world.
You go through life alone.
No one visits. You don’t visit anyone. You start to avoid people altogether.
But let me tell you—loneliness will choke you in your 60s.
You’ll look back and wish you socialized when you had the chance.
I once read:
“You make your best friends when you’re young. It’s a retirement plan.”
And it’s true.
At 60, when others are celebrating 30-40 years of friendship, reunions, shared memories, deep bonds—
You’re out here still stuck in watching people's WhatsApp status.
Try and build friendships with people who already have their people.
And let’s not forget opportunities— Most of them come by through social networking.
Have an awesome weekends and MAY God see us through 🎉🙏🏽
Inspired
